Enhancing Nonverbal Communication

As parents, we all look forward to hearing those first words—“mama,” “dada,” or “more!” But before children speak, they're already communicating in powerful ways. Waving, pointing, facial expressions, and body language are all examples of nonverbal communication. Nonverbal communication is the first language every child learns.

For children with communication delays or disorders, supporting and strengthening these nonverbal skills is very helpful. Whether your child is slow to start speaking or is already chattering away, boosting nonverbal communication lays the foundation for meaningful connection and language growth.

Here are some simple ways you can support your child’s nonverbal communication at home:

1. Get Face-to-Face

Physically lower yourself to your child’s eye level. This shows them you’re tuned in and ready to engage. It also gives them a clear view of your facial expressions, which helps them learn how emotions look and feel.

➡️ Try This:  During playtime, sit on the floor facing your child. Make silly faces at them and watch their reaction.

2. Use and Teach Gestures

Gestures are the building blocks of early communication. Pointing, waving, nodding, clapping, or simple sign language are all powerful ways to express ideas without saying a word.

➡️ Try This: Model gestures consistently. When you say “bye,” always wave. When you ask a question, nod or shake your head to show yes or no.

3. Follow Their Lead

Children communicate more when they’re interested. Watch what catches their attention and join in.

➡️ Try This: If your child points to a toy, hand it to them and label it: “You want the ball!” This encourages both joint attention and expressive communication.

4. Play With Purpose

Interactive play teaches turn-taking, facial expressions, and body language—all essential to communication.

➡️ Try This: Play peekaboo, roll a ball back and forth, or take turns stacking blocks. Celebrate every interaction to encourage them.

5. Read Books With Pictures of Emotions

Books are a great way to learn about feelings and facial expressions. Look for stories with expressive illustrations.

➡️ Try This: Pause and say, “How do you think she feels?” Then mimic the face together. “She looks surprised—can we make a surprised face too?”

Remember to celebrate the communication your child gives. Whether it’s a look, a gesture, or a sound—respond with enthusiasm! Your attention reassures your child that their message was received.

Research shows that strong nonverbal communication skills—like pointing, making eye contact, and using gestures—predict future language success. They’re also crucial for social interaction, learning, and emotional development.

By meeting your child where they are and celebrating every effort to connect, you’re not just helping them communicate—you’re showing them that their voice matters, whether it’s spoken or signed, smiled or shouted.